12 Years In: Some Things I Have Learned About Ministry

In my early twenties I thought leadership was figuring out ways to give everyone what they want.
Now I think leadership is about being clear about where you believe God is leading the ministry.

I used to think a pastor should be liked by everyone.
Now I think that there is no way possible for this to happen. Over the years I have had several people close to me part ways with our ministry because of disagreement.

I used to think that my first priority was serving the church.
Now I think that my first priority is to serve my family.

I used to think that the point of a sermon was to give answers.
Now I think that the point of a sermon is to raise questions.

I used to think that the greatest hindrance to God’s work in the world were “sinful” people.
Now I think the greatest hindrance to God’s work in the world are the “self-righteous” who hide behind the veil of religion.

I used to think that the smaller the church, the better people would experience “community”.
Now I think “community” is about the spirit and openness of the people at the church no matter the size.

I used to think that ministry was about spending lots of hours at the church.
Now I think that ministry is about using my hours to be fully present, living with an awareness to God’s leading no matter where it takes me.

I used to think the Kingdom of God was something that was coming “one day”.
Now I think that for those with ears to hear and eyes to see, God’s Kingdom work is breaking into the here and now.

I used to think devotional time was something you did for 15 or so minutes in the morning.
Now I think devotional time is seeing every moment of every day as sacred potential for God to breathe into you.

I used to think that I should try and prove my point to someone who disagreed with me.
Now I think it is better to listen and agree to disagree.

I used to think leadership was about making a decision and sticking with it even if it is the wrong decision.
Now I think leadership is owning up to failures by admitting where I have dropped the ball.

I used to think that what people wanted most in a leader was confidence.
Now I think that what people want most in a leader is authenticity.

I used to think the church was just for Christians.
Now I think the church is for everyone.